So, why don’t you fix your life? Why don’t you stand up for yourself? Why don’t you just say no?
“Because I feel unworthy.”
The antidote to unworthiness.
This answer certainly did not come easily or quickly for many of my clients, but much of what was at the very heart of all the pennies dropping for them and their decision that it was time to change was the admission of their deep and relentless feeling of unworthiness.
I have found the antidote to unworthiness and I cannot wait to share it with you in my forthcoming book. If you choose this antidote your life will change forever.
(Yes, I promise it is coming!) All good things come to those who wait!
From countless clients 1:1’s and several of my illuminating workshops here is what men and women I’ve worked with have told me:
When I know my worth:
I feel strong. I feel centred. I am not worried about judgement. I sometimes stand alone. I affirm myself. I am not asking for validation. I am not seeking to please. I am not raising my voice. I am peaceful. I am open to discussion. I do not take things personally. I give. I am focussed on things I can control. I am brave enough to speak up. I remove myself from situations that are not good. I feel present. I am not afraid of my emotions. I remember the solid ground that my ancestors built for me. I am not threatened. I stand firm in the truth. I turn my back on propaganda and fear. I know I have gifts to offer. I share. I eat better and exercise. I question and am curious. I do what I say. I am not a pushover. I am so much more loving. I stop abusing myself with drugs and alcohol. I do not tolerate disrespect. I fulfil my responsibilities. I am a better father.
Here is another little secret about my book - I’ve worked in suicide prevention for years and when we know our worth we are way less likely to want to end our lives.
Much love to you on this Sunday morning, you are so loved, so precious and so worthy.
“Because I feel unworthy.”
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